This talk was given at ApacheCon 2020. The slides are available here: http://www.robtompkins.com/apachecon-2020-from-no-oss-experience-to-pmc-and-member/
further the talk iteself is available here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q02zH0qKos
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