[feature] support shuffle read with retry when facing IO error.

[Yang Jiang]

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Same in spark

 /**
   * Max number of times we will try IO exceptions (such as connection timeouts) per request.
   * If set to 0, we will not do any retries.
   */
  public int maxIORetries() { return conf.getInt(SPARK_NETWORK_IO_MAXRETRIES_KEY, 3); }

https://github.com/apache/spark/blob/2878cd84d5d5edcaa9bbc642c12d8c7f6f009328/common/network-common/src/main/java/org/apache/spark/network/util/TransportConf.java#L157
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