BLE GAP connection terminated (con 0 reason 0x213)

[mydelta123]

Sorry I have some issue can anyone help me?

mac intel
Arduin ide 1.8.13
ESP32 Board Support 2.0.6

already turn on c++17 support and setup, the Light.ino can compile and write firmware

but when i commissioning always fail:
BLE GAP connection terminated (con 0 reason 0x213)

or I need something like this? Enable Host Flow control => disable? but it's should be pre compiled?
project-chip/connectedhomeip#6839